With funding from the EU, the IRC helps young Syrian girls in Lebanon counter gender-based violence and prejudice. Meet Sabah, the girl who freed herself from a forced marriage at the age of 13.
Sabah* remembers what her home in Syria was like before she fled.
“It was on the ground floor with four rooms, a kitchen, and a bathroom,” she recalls. “There were plants and flowers next to us, and we had a yard to play in.” Now 15 years old, she lives in a modest apartment with her family - who have been residing in Lebanon for the last eight years.
In 2012, the International Rescue Committee (IRC) began aiding some of the 1.5 million refugees from Syria now residing in Lebanon. A growing financial and economic crisis in the country was only exacerbated by the onset of COVID-19, with resulting lockdowns disproportionately affecting Syrian families who had escaped war. Many turned to negative coping mechanisms such as skipping or reducing meals to keep up with rising inflation have children take up jobs to earn a sufficient income as a family.
Sabah's father, Hamza* is no stranger to these problems. With skyrocketing rents and prices, he struggles to find a smaller, more affordable place for the family. Being unable to afford an automobile also means his children have to walk long distances to get to school - exposing them to harassment on the way.
Approximately half of all Syrian children aged 11 to 18 years of age remain out of school in Lebanon. With adolescents, and particularly girls, most at risk of dropping out. Women and girls also disproportionately face the risk of early marriage and violence.
Sabah* has seen this first-hand. She faced getting engaged to a man from her community at the young age of 13, after a neighbor approached her parents.
In response to issues facing women and girls, the IRC has launched a Women’s Protection and Empowerment (WPE) program with the support of the European Union (EU). Through almost two years of the program, it became evident that adolescent girls were particularly at risk of gender-based violence.
In response, the IRC has created safe spaces for young women and girls to build a sense of community, learn their rights, and to voice their concerns in a non-judgemental and supportive environment.
Having always been interested in the IRC’s activities and wanting an opportunity to get out of the house more, Sabah began participating in the EU-funded WPE program. During these sessions she was able to develop a support network, and grew stronger in her hesitations about her impending marriage.
The program sessions revolve around themes such as reproductive health, self-esteem, and decision making, often through creative mediums. The sessions also function as a way for young Syrian girls to get together and build friendships.
We got to know new people, unlike before when we would always stay in the house. We made solid friendships.
After attending a few of the EU-funded sessions, Sabah* realized she was still too young to be married and that education was her right as a girl. She decided to open up to her parents completely. “I told them two things,” she says. “One, I don’t want to be married, and two, I want to finish my education.”
Fortunately, her parents were extremely supportive. “They didn’t insist on the matter,” she says, relief washing over her face. “My dad said to let me do as I please, and my mother agreed.”
Elissar Hababe, 33, an Adolescent Girls Assistant with the IRC, leads the sessions Sabah attends with her sister Rania. She is a role model for young Syrian girls and teaches them important life lessons. “She never treated us like we were outsiders,” says Sabah*, recounting the impact her relationship with Elissar has made on her. “She always made us feel like she’s one of us - that she’s a friend.”
The girls who attend are also taught how to speak out in case of sexual or verbal harassment and informed about a hotline to call to report such assaults. Elissar is adamant that the girls should know their rights. “She tells us a woman should be firm. She should not be silent if someone harasses her,” explains Sabah*. “She should speak up and protect herself.”
The obstacles Sabah’s* family face today - the fate of so many other Syrian refugees in Lebanon - are mostly financial. Despite the everyday hurdles, Sabah remains determined to focus her attention on school, her hobbies, and her dream of one day traveling abroad.
*Names have been changed to protect privacy.
The International Rescue Committee partners with the European Union to provide life-saving support to people caught in conflict and disasters around the world. Our work funded by the EU enables people to survive, recover and rebuild their lives.
