Ameera* and her family were displaced from their hometown in Syria. The eldest daughter of 6 siblings, she lives with developmental delays and medical issues. 

Ameera, 15, folds sheets in the bedroom that she shares with her siblings. She has learnt to adapt to her blindness thanks to the routines she has put in place. She makes her bed everyday by herself and succeeds in helping her sister and stepmother with house tasks.
Ameera, 15, folds sheets in the bedroom that she shares with her siblings. She has learnt to adapt to her blindness thanks to the routines she has put in place. She makes her bed everyday by herself and succeeds in helping her sister and stepmother with house tasks.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy for the IRC

Due to medical malpractice, she is also blind. This has only made adapting and settling into Lebanon as Syrian refugees even harder on her and her family. However, with help from those around her and through her own determination, Ameera has made huge strides in finding confidence.

Ameera and her father in the living room of their apartment. Since Ameera loves the beach, he takes her there to spend quality time together collecting seashells.
Ameera and her father in the living room of their apartment. Since Ameera loves the beach, he takes her there to spend quality time together collecting seashells.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy for the IRC

Samer, her devoted father, fled from Syria to Lebanon with his family in 2012. Today, as the entire family has fragile physical health, most of Samer’s expenses go into treatments for all of them. But his children have been, and continue to be, his greatest source of strength in overcoming hurdles. He wants to do everything in his power to support and care for them. When asked what worries him the most after fleeing from Syria, he says, “My biggest fear is who would take care of the children?” 

He has observed the change in Ameera since she started attending the IRC-led safe space sessions with her sister, Ruqaya. He says, “Three months ago, Ameera did not mix well with children. She is now getting out of the house, is more aware of her surroundings, and also has the desire to explore.” 

Ameera and her sister Ruqaya
Ruqaya, 14, hugs her sister, Ameera after a safe space session. She loves accompanying her sister to these sessions, where she also partakes in the activities that foster community amongst Syrian refugee girls.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy for the IRC

This change in her character was also observed by Ruqaya, who explains that Ameera used to get angry and lash out at her friends, which led to her becoming antisocial. She says, “After attending the sessions everything in her [Ameera’s] life changed. I even felt like she became closer to me.” This noticeable switch in her personality led Ameera to reconcile with her friends and lead a more fulfilling social life. 

IRC Women’s Protection and Empowerment assistant Diana helps Ameera write her emotions on paper at one of IRC’s safe space sessions.
Women’s Protection and Empowerment (WPE) assistant Diana Khoury, 33, helps Ameera write her emotions on paper at one of IRC’s safe space sessions. Ameera’s sister Ruqaya, on the right, gives them company.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy for the IRC

Diana is a 33 year old Lebanese IRC staff member who is part of the safe space sessions that have helped Ameera, her sister, and countless other girls. Her motivation to join as an Adolescent Girls’ Assistant came from her experience as a young girl lacking access to important information and resources. She says, “I have the chance to give these girls access to the information they are really in need of.” It was, and still is, taboo to discuss certain issues with the wider community; especially around the topic of mental and reproductive health. She is determined to provide young girls with the communal support she was deprived of growing up. 

IRC WPE Manager Diana leading a safe space session for girls
The safe spaces allow girls creative outlets to express their emotions.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy for the IRC

Diana has also noted a valuable change in Ameera’s quality of life following the IRC sessions which they adapted according to her special needs. They were able to create a safe space tailored to address her specific concerns. It was important to gradually build her trust so that she felt comfortable enough to express herself. It took around 4-5 sessions for her to open up and begin partaking in the activities with the other girls. 

“The most important lesson that I teach the girls is always to speak out and to seek support. Whenever they feel they have to, to never hide their real personality or wear a mask, they have to speak up and seek support because it's the first step to help their self-esteem, self-confidence, and to actually solve their problems.”

Ameera speaks with the other Syrian refugee girls at the end of the drawing activity at the safe space session.
Ameera speaks with the other Syrian refugee girls at the end of the drawing activity at the safe space session. The girls support her by telling her that her presence at the sessions is important to them.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy for the IRC

This kind of support allows girls like Ameera to lead more confident lives. Diana explains how the sessions begin with handicraft activities that aim to get the girls comfortable with the environment. Gradually trust is built after the girls feel more welcomed, they emphasise the confidentiality of anything said in the sessions. This secures their attention and trust. 

Since 2011, Syrian society has been torn apart by brutal violence, creating one of the largest humanitarian crises of the 21st century. 6.7 million people are still displaced inside Syria and 15.3 million are in need of humanitarian aid. Many civilians have been left living in perpetual conflict zones and have been displaced multiple times. Women and children are particularly vulnerable to a range of safety issues including sexual violence, early marriage, child labour, as well as physical and mental trauma. The war is now in its 12th year and has been aggravated by the earthquakes that occurred in Northern Syria in February 2023. One of the ways that the IRC provides aid to those affected is through various support programmes for Syrian refugees in Jordan, Iraq and Lebanon.

Ameera with her family
Ameera (3rd left) poses for a photograph with her father Samer (far left), her stepmother Asma, 33 (2nd left) and her siblings; from left to right, Ahsan, 8, Ruqaya, 14, Hassan, 11, and Zain, 6, at their apartment. After the sessions Ameera has been better able to communicate and interact with her parents and siblings.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy for the IRC

“The thing I love the most about Ameera,” her father says with a smile, “Is how active she is, despite her situation. She is more active than her brothers. She does not give up.” 

Ruqaya now enjoys spending most of her time with her sister. Together at the center, they play with toys, draw, colour, and make tabbouleh. Ameera is closer than ever to living a life full of community and care. She is developing friendships, is more outgoing, navigates her house better, is more communicative, and, on the whole, happier. She dreams of continuing school and gaining a university education one day.

*Names have been changed to protect the identity of the persons interviewed.

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